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The man is gay, plain and simple.
Its nice of Cary to couch his response with some psychological bumbo jumbo, but the truth is that the man is gay. How does a hetero man go to a gay club, get picked up, and turn it into how his wife dresses? His wife may dress that way b/c she subconsciously knows that her husband is gay and therefore can comfortably fulfill her own psychological issues by dressing down constantly. You don't downplay your looks unless you have an issue with the consequences of looking beautiful. She doesn't just ignore her looks, she actively downplays them.
Instead of sending stupid letters to Cary, the man needs to seek a separation from his wife, put on a condom, and try sex with a man. Get it over with! His games are only wasting his wife's time.
- Afro Goddess
