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I'm not going to jump on the "he's gay" bandwagon but I am going to say that there's something missing from this guy's story. If he's not gay, he's enjoying the attention of gay men, at least. If you go to a bar you know is frequented by gay men and accept drinks from two men sitting together, don't be surprised if they turn out to be gay (or blame your wife for their attention) and start to flirt. As a straight woman, I know what it means when a man sends me a drink in a bar. If I chose to join him at his table, I would be more surprised if he didn't flirt!