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Monday, March 27, 2006 12:00 AM

If my wife dressed better, would gay guys stop hitting on me?

I'm a snappy dresser, and the other night, my wife and I were hanging out in this gay bar ...
By Cary Tennis

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  • Monday, March 27, 2006 04:30 PM

    it doesn't "border on abuse"

    it IS abuse. i seriously doubt the LW's wife would be upset just because gay men hit on her husband. she's upset because he encourages it and looks for it. and denigrates her in the process.

    he's clearly narcissistic. his sexual orientation is besides the point.

    i agree with the letter writer who said the wife should begin her wardrobe transformation by removing her wedding ring. it's not possible to have a healthy marriage--or a healthy sense of self--when married to a narcissist.

    —Anonymous

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