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Tuesday, March 14, 2006 12:00 AM

During the blizzard, I refused to shelter my friend

There were other places he could go, and I wanted to be alone with my boyfriend.

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  • Wednesday, March 15, 2006 07:25 AM

    It's instinctual

    I find it really telling that more than 150 people have responded to this story. To me that shows what a visceral reaction people have to someone being a really crappy "friend."

    You can argue till the next blizzard whether this woman had the moral/ethical/logical/legal "right" to turn her friend away in a snowstorm/blackout, whether the friend hd other people to turn to, and on and on. But the fact is, when all the rationalizations are spewed, she was just WRONG. Flat-out wrong. A self-absorbed bitch. Period. There will be other Sundays she can snuggle under the covers with her boyfriend, whom, I hope, she treats with a little more kindness and respect than she did her text-messaging pal. But at some point, she'll realize that however many Sundays there are, she has no friends left. Except people as shallow as she is, I guess.

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