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My experience with high libido husbands taught me when a man says he "never gets any sex" that is translated to really mean he gets sex less than twice a day. My husband adds an additional "S" to the daily 3 S's. If you get my meaning.
Using that need as a commodity might be good idea if it worked. I can see how that would backlash in unpredictable ways. Anyway, it is a little like using food as a commodity. Paint the bathroom and I'll give bj's. Do people (non-professional sex providers that is) really behave this way?
Cary is right. Love appears to be absent in this relationship. I cannot even imagine treating anyone, let alone those you profess to love, this way.