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>>One, why are some of you assuming they have kids? >>
because he said she had been pregnant.
I don't think blaming all men or blaming all women really matters here, or any time, for that matter.
There does not seem to be much love or loving actions between the two. maybe it can be revived, one can learn to act more loving and remember to not take one's mate for granted. But it takes work and comittment on both sides; both have to want it.