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As I said, "I can see why that makes them both look bad."
I don't believe that all men are evil, but if you're going to write a screed about me without reading my letter then I can understand why you would think that.
Yes, we only have a certain amount of evidence to peruse. That doesn't mean that I take everything that a letter writer says as the gospel, particularly when their own wording gives them away.
And, no, emotional abandonment doesn't mean that it's okay to manipulate your husband. I'm advocating for the under-represented woman in the equation. I would imagine they are both at fault. I already said that, but you've heard it the way you want to so there's nothing else to say.