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You see, since my wife and I married, we've had plenty of conflict about the lack of sex in our relationship. I've always had a very strong libido, and my wife (especially during pregnancy) never seemed to care much about sex (this wasn't at all true when we were dating). We didn't have sex on our wedding night, or during most of our honeymoon, and quite frankly during most of our marriage so far."
The answer is....get into a time machine, and go back to the days before you got married.
Seriously, for you single men reading this: Have you heard many stories about men having unsatisfying sex lives with their girlfriends, then getting all the sex and BJ's they wanted *after* they got married? Or, is it usually the other way around?
Bottom line....marriage is becoming obsolete. About 25% of young men surveyed by the Rutgers University marriage project say that they are "definitely" not getting married in the future. And, that number is growing every year.
If a woman *really* loves you, she'll stay with you, married or not. And when your woman decides that she doesn't like sex as much as you do, it's a lot easier to move on if that woman is your girlfriend, instead of your wife.
