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I feel confident that my husband is secure and happily married as well. I'm attractive and well-educated. I take care of myself, and so does he.
We both want to be around for a long time.
I know that what he says behind my back is similar to what I say behind his. I know him very well.
Does that mean that we never argue, that I don't find other people attractive? that he doesn't find other women attractive? No. Hell, Brad Pitt is one of the most beautiful men on the planet... BUT SO WHAT???!!
I married an honorable man who is funny, smart and good-looking. I feel really lucky.
As far as the numbers go, the flip side of the negative statistics is that there are also positive ones.
Don't know if it makes any difference to your perception, but we are an interracial couple , and we were actually friends before we got romantically or sexually involved, which I believe is a big key to our success.