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I read the letter to Cary and I would think it's pretty impossible to say what dynamic is going on in his home. We know none of the specifics except that the LW and his wife are not having a lot of sex and his perception is that she uses sex as a manipulative tool in their marriage. The men writing in are accusing this woman of being a harpy and a hag (!?) and marrying this man for money. When did he mention anything about their financial status at all. For all we know she is the bread winner in the family. All these men who believe that they are always the meal ticket in the house must be out to lunch. Step away from the keyboard...
One woman's opinion.