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and you seem to be obsessed with being "happily married". Again, you really don't know what your hubby thinks and whether being married was (or is) his first choice. Maybe it was all that he could get or the only option available. Successful men don't need to be married. It has no better odds than flipping a coin. The fact is, from a Darwinian perspective (which is the accurate perspective) men get the best woman (or women) their careers and success will enable them to. Women get the best man that their looks will allow them to. It is survival of the fittest, as it should be.