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"No Name Given," you are clearly disturbed by the prospect of a happy, healthy marriage. Why else would you try so hard to undermine it? Why is your first response not one of admiration -- even grudging admiration -- but "How do you know your husband actually loves you?" What kind of asshole even asks that?
Your posts about marriage show why you're so insanely jealous of ALL the happily marrieds out there: in your world, there's no room for love. All you can imagine marriage being is a stock market where money buys looks. There's no such thing as respect, trust, affection or caring in your world. You're both incapable and undeserving of love, so you're guaranteed to attract a person as empty and worthless as yourself.
Now, normally I'm fine when human null sets seek each other out; it keeps them away from the rest of us. It's only when you try to instill suspicion in emotionally healthy people that you step over the line. You're like a bully outside of a birthday party, crying bitterly because he wasn't invited and planning a way to ruin the party for all the happy kids.
Just know that we're all onto you, and that we'd probably feel pity if you weren't just such a waste of any emotion at all.