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Monday, February 6, 2006 12:00 AM

Hooray, Celexa took my sex drive away!

And now my wife can't manipulate me.

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  • Saturday, February 4, 2006 05:43 AM

    not quite , Cary

    Cary forgot tomention or even think about a very serious issue:namely the fact that most women are not particularly satisfied by "normal sex". the man asking him for advice forgot to mention whether when the sexual intercourse occurs, he is even trying to satisfy his wife and provide her with satisfaction.

    And Cary took the bait hook,line and sinker.

    The truth is that most men know abolutely nothing about satisfying a woman, nor do they care. The other sad truth is that the wife is seen as being somekind of an appliance, ready to serve her partner at any opportunity and to hell with her wishes or her desires.

    Of course nothing is said about whether the sexual relatioship has changed after the marriage. Whether maybe the reason why the wife would refuse to have sex with her husbandis because he is not good at having sex ( as far as a woman's satisfaction goes) or too selfish to care. These points are not even remotely touched by Cary- for whom the woman appears to have to be just a happy slave, nor the author of the letter, who would have mentioned it if he would have cared.

    How about those reasons, dear Cary- ever thought about a woman's satisfaction??

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