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as how can men control what women think or do? We don't and usually don't give a shit. If, when dating a woman, there is no sex within a reasonable time (Say no more than 30 days or more than 3-5 dates) then it is time for a man to move on to greener pastures. We prefer sex not "mystery" or some bullshit gamesmanship when you fucked some guys on your 1st date and now wish to act demure and chaste because you think a man might be marriage material. A bit of advice: most men evaluate you as a sexual experience before they even think of falling in "love" with you. That is a fact.