Letters to the Editor
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Find yourself again
To the LW:
Wow. You've been through quite a bit in the past few years.
Cary gives excellent advice when he told you to concentrate on just figuring out what you love and what you don't.
One of my mottos in life:
"What you love will help you grow."
That's the only path to happiness. So figure that out, and then like Cary said, look back at your husband. Maybe you'd see something different about him then -- and that will help you make a decision as to whether you want to stay in this marriage.
Sorry I had to say that -- but it does sound like a one-sided relationship to me. Your husband decided at the last minute to move to Europe to continue his studies? That's not just rude but signals that he values his advancement in his career to be more important than yours. And I really hope that he wasn't the one who told you about his supervisor's remark. If it wasn't, great. If it was... then you've got a very poisonous person in your life that you should probably get rid of asap.