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Thursday, December 8, 2005 12:00 AM

We're married, but do we have to live together?

I love my husband, but I need my own place.
By Cary Tennis

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  • Thursday, December 8, 2005 07:07 AM

    Out Of

    I don't want out of the relationship or marriage. I just want to go back to living by myself ... seeing each other several times a week as we did before.

    This sounds to me like the definition of being out of the marriage. Living apart is one thing; seeing a person "several times a week" is dating, not a marriage.

    My advice would be to terminate the marriage and go back to what you had before, assuming your spouse agrees.

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