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who sees this note "You were welcome to stay in my uterus for nine months, and then my house for 17 years. But I understand, a week at your apartment might be a bit … much" not so much "the adorable and exasperating quirkiness" Hepola finds but more a message of anger and hurt?
And the letter writer who waited until June to check up on a mother who failed to arrive for a visit in April . . .
How many more generations is it going to take to get a handle on our attitudes toward mothers?