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The established courtship rules and rituals have been upended, and nothing has yet been established to replace them. As Tracy points out, though, this is not feminism's fault, and it is difficult to navigate the new playing field for women as well as men.
And the survival of the ass-hole-iest is being documented, hilariously (!) here:
http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/