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Thursday, November 20, 2008 12:00 AM

Dudes try "dating Darwinism"

An author argues that angry young men are becoming assholes to try to get women.

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  • Thursday, November 20, 2008 06:43 PM

    The real issue is women are not men

    Women are human beings, with real feelings, wants and needs.

    There are no rules on courtship -- those only worked when women had no option but nunhood or marriage.

    Now adays each and every woman is different, and wants something different, expecting them to act a certain way, or for dating rules to work -- tells me you are too lazy, you just want to get laid with out any effort. To you a woman is not a person, but a fuck toy. You can't be bothered to get to know them.

    Women are not men, they don't want what you want.

    Your sexual frustration is just that, its yours. And no one else is responsible for it in anyway. Hating women because you are frustrated is just a way to avoid responsibility to yourself, to explore what you really want - and how you need to change. No body wants to change, no one likes self change, but since absolutely no woman on this planet owes you anything -- period. You can either figure out what you need to do to change or live with your frustrations. Most men opt for the "Player" crap -- here is a hint that is not true change, you didn't become a better person, just a manipulative bastard - and quality women will know it and avoid you. After awhile you'll get bored of screwing idiots, and you will be back to square one, with a need to change yourself. Except now you are lot older.

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