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Don't you see that by 'humoring' them but reserving your relationship demands for nice guys, you're doing the assholes a double favor, and by fulfilling all their needs you're just encouraging the asshole behavior and allowing it to thrive in our society?
This issue still pisses me off a lot and I totally missed it.
But I've become accustomed to the remedy, which is that guys are all now choosing to become assholes to fix this problem.
touche, ladies.