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The alleged "chaos" of modern dating has benefited the men-children quite nicely. It's actually the more grown-up men who have gotten screwed, and they're the ones who were writing to her.
You are completely correct.
This is a downward, self-feeding spiral. As more men learn the player tricks in order to get on the gravy train, women become ever more cynical towards ALL men.
There, apparently, WAS a reason ancient societies felt that if the women had the chance to do as they please, the SOCIETY is LOST.
It is proving out as we speak.