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Thursday, November 20, 2008 12:00 AM

Dudes try "dating Darwinism"

An author argues that angry young men are becoming assholes to try to get women.

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  • Thursday, November 20, 2008 04:24 PM

    to Ms Clark-Flory

    Indeed, let's not make this a war between the sexes. But looking around, looking at the many complaints from both sides, looking at the scars that come up even in places like this letter thread--is there a way to avoid it? Maybe the next generation. Maybe after people stop feeling confused by the idea and (still clumsy) practice of gender equality. But right now? Maybe unavoidable.

    My hope is that kryptogal and closetnerd are right--that most people do eventually grow mature and figure this stuff out, while those who keep complaining remain an immature minority. I sometimes wonder, though.

    Nice post anyway. Keep up the good work!

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