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"If neither sex ever engaged in sex without love, you can be sure that the human race would become extinct in approximately three generations, because no one would ever have sex to find out whatt all the fuss was about, so many would remain virgins, nearly all one-night-stands would fail the test except in cases of love at first sight, and because 95% of marital sex would be eliminated."
I disagree with this assessment....I also think the number of social ills that the world must deal with would drop considerably by eliminating unwanted babies and fatherless children. It's not like we have a shortage of people.
"Don't get me wrong. When sex and love do coincide it is nice, but they are not necessary for each other. I love my wife and I have sex with her, but the actual sex is not necessarily any different from sex with a woman I don't love"
Just WOW ! The reason I married my wife was because I loved her and the sex I had with her was COMPLETELY different than sex I had with women I did not love. In fact, that's what turned me off about having freely available sex without an emotional connection, to me, it was no different than masturbating .