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  • Saturday, December 6, 2008 06:01 AM

    Now that I know what sorts of signals women put out

    because I read it in a Game book, I see the signals.

    But here is a run down of a few of the signals and how they FAIL.

    She smiles at you - WELL, if you do not know her, you do not know how much she smiles at ANYONE else, she may just be a happy person for all you know.

    She dresses nicely - see above.

    She comes over and talks to you - maybe she is just forward with everyone.

    She touches your arm - maybe she is just touchy with everyone.

    She jumps on your lap, puts her arms around you, and gives you a big smooch - maybe she is just this way with every guy.

    She unzips you and gives you a lewinsky - see above.

    SO you can see the approach above has its limitations.

    Are there other approaches then that DO work? Remember, unless the guy is TRAINED in The Game or REALLY likes her in return from the beginning, he will miss most of the above signals.

    Also note, I had the problem that even if and when I did receive a signal when I was younger, and I did recognize it for what it was I was thwarted by a combination of:

    - doubt - I was shy and did not want to make the wrong assumption

    - lack of skill at flirting

    - lack of ability or confidence to know what to do next

    other things I am sure.

    anyway, today is move day for me: Houston BACK to AUSTIN. Hooorah!!!!

    later...

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