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First, it's "you're", not "your" in this context. People who set themselves up as the arbiter of what should be set themselves up for grammar flames.
You are not the one to decide who or what I am or any woman is.
You are CERTAINLY not the one to say "well, you've got a doctorate so you're some sort of intermediate thing provided I like how you behave."
Don't you realize what you're doing? How much Kool-Aid did they make you drink?