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When is gold digging prostitution?

A college student explains how she landed her "sugar daddy."

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  • Friday, December 5, 2008 12:01 PM

    number 2 of 2

    The weirdest thing though is the continued emphasis (by trolls) on how women "have" some sexual thing (our vaginas, I guess) that we "control" and keep from men....

    Actually, no. Men are not entitled to 'it' automatically, but there ought to be understanding among women that men's and women's sexuality is fundamentally different. Such understanding would understandably lead to different attitudes in women in society.

    There can be no doubt though that much of discourse between the sexes is driven by women knowing men want more sex and therefore women are able to sometimes use this as a tool or weapon, which leads to cynicism, etc.

    Also, when women do sleep with men, they have no clue often times how to choose good men. That or they bitch for nothing. One thing is known, the Idiocracy model, where the half breeds and sociopaths of society have dozens of bastard offspring and the better men are lucky to have one or two, does hold, which makes for a ready market for the next generation of women to bitch over how they have no control over life or the planet or government or men-- which is RICHLY IRONIC.

    but of course, since women have no sexual desires, it is impossible to imagine a woman (older, plainer, heavier) who wants what MEN HAVE -- a penis -- and can't have that, anymore than a poor man can get the vagina of a supermodel.

    A poor, unattractive man has a bit over ZERO chance of bedding a supermodel or of bedding, frankly, ANYONE even remotely decent. Any old woman, age not withstanding, can at least bed some of the more depraved members of the male species, some of which can be quite nice or attractive.

    And women do not have the secondary market of prostitution. Male prostitutes who service only lonely old wrinkly fat women simply do not exist.

    BULLSHIT. TOTAL UTTER BULLSHIT. There is no market for it. Believe me, a lot of guys do not care if they bed 400 lb. heifers if it gets them sex. HOW MUCH MORE DESIRABLE WOULD IT BE for these men to actually EARN money fucking?!? It blows the mind. I find your baldly false pronouncement to be laughable in the extreme.

    Women largely just do not give a flip about penetrative sex. They want romance and wine and roses with the sex as an afterthought.

    If a woman isn't beautiful, she's pretty much shit-out-of-luck in that department. As Gemma Kaye Brown intelligently observes, men may get richer over time but women lose their looks and youth, and get discarded. There are 80 year old millionaires, like Hugh Hefner, who can still pay gorgeous girls to service him -- but I'll bet my last nickel that Leona Helmsley had no such thing.

    But she could have. She did not WANT it. that is a whole different story.

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