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The problem is that men and women are in different skins, with different ostensible needs, and so we need to negotiate past all that with institutions that accommodate the unique needs of each sex, hopefully with some semblance of balance.
Classic societies are often more stable because both sides came to a truce and moved ahead together. The US is now in great turmoil because women no longer go for what they said they wanted, legal parity, but for more than that. They want to play men for asses. Fine, the pendulum will swing back, eventually balancing again.