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As for Brightstar, dickdworkin and the rest of the bitter, judgemental men...if you guys weren't such assholes I would have suggested you go find one of those lonely women except you would only make their life more miserable.
Assholes get the girls.
Lonely women expect to be catered to. They refuse to BUCK UP, do what they have to and get out there. They are passive.
Good for them. They can remain that way. ALONE.
It occurred to me last night, mulling over this very article (YES! this article!) that when guys encounter failure in the dating game, they do one of two things, they persist until they learn the game, or they give up, at least until they gather up some new data in which to resume the game with.
With women, they have it easy, easy, easy (their looks giving them all the offers they want from men), then when things get a bit harder as women get a bit older, they just throw up their hands and begin to contemplate a life of cats.
Pathetic when you think about it. No attempt to be more smily, or more charming, or more helpful, or more intereesting, or more confident. The exception seems to be women never tire of putting the blade to their body, which, ironically means so very little to most men about what attracts us men to you women.
SO it is laziness, driven by a sense of privilege and female superiority that damns these women.
I am a man, I will never be lonely as long as I chase the ball.
Women, on the other hand, seem to prefer to whine and sit there like a lump.