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But I would love to have a donkey in the house (a real donkey). Here's my advice--don't do the housework. Wait until he learns to do it. It's worked for me. My partner is much more attuned to keeping the place clean than I am, and he does the work. I get to do what I'm good at, which is cook. The thing is, don't argue about it, just do what you want to do with conviction.