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Are more middle-aged men turned off by intimacy?
  • Why?

    "Yeesh, I don't know why this is happening. Maybe it's depression, or "changing sexual roles," as the story so vaguely suggests." Sarah Hepola

    Well crap, couldn't POSSIBLY be that men are getting turned off when women won't let them BE men. You want him to be kinder, gentlier, more considerate and at the same time you want him to be a he-man, to take charge - but ONLY if he does what YOU want him to do.

    OR, could be you want him to wine you and dine you every single time...and then make conditions about how, when, and where you're going to have sex. Maybe the payoff isn't worth all the effort to go thru to get it any more.

    There are a number of reasons why this is occurring and it depends on the situation with the man and the woman.