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It is a silly proposition that doing chores would make your man more attractive sexually. I don't sleep with the help. My maid is not an increased target of my lust. My gardener and lawn boy don't receive forward advances. My man brings home the money that pays these people, and that makes him extremely sexy. He is sexiest after he changes the flat tire in our car, or steps in between me and an aggressive panderer. Man jobs.
Watching him on hands and knees scrubbing the floor just doesn't do it. Sorry.