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Monday, March 10, 2008 12:00 AM

The sexual politics of household chores

One writer reenacts a day in the life of a 1950s housewife. Meanwhile, will doing the dishes get men laid?
Sarah Hepola

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  • Monday, March 10, 2008 11:37 AM

    It's not the act of doing chores that's sexy...

    It's that he cares enough about me not to think to himself "if I ignore this task long enough, she'll do it and I won't have to." It has nothing to do with subservience or reversal of gender roles. It just means he cares about me. Like buying me flowers, but infinitely more useful. And I DO find it sexy when the man I love shows he cares about me. Who wouldn't?

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