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Like 85-90% of men I am big, big, big fan of the vagina, the volva, and the clitoris (in fact I have said I worship the clitoris), and as such am also a fan of the words cunt, pussy, beaver, puntang, bearded clam, and etc. In fact those words and the word orgasm kind of give me an electrical excitement when I hear them uttered by women.
There just words, and the words themselves aren't the problem, but how they are used can be hurtful or degrading. But when attacking the usage, be sure to address your wrath against the users and not the words themselves. I am a big fan of free speech (almost as much as I am of the clitoris), and I don't want to see any word banned, including the word nigger, but I will show my wrath to any racist scum how uses the word nigger to hurt or degrade someone.
To AKA Smith
The word cunt is also sometimes applied to men, and the word is more degrading and hurtful when it is applied to them than when it is applied to women.
The difference between male and female directed insults is that most men take pride in being called most male directed insults (such as dick, prick, asshole, gigolo, and pig), where as women almost never take pride in being called a female directed insult (cunt, bitch, slut, whore, and etc).
Douchebag, pussy and homophobic terms are the exceptions among male directed insults, in that almost no man will ever take pride in being called a douchebag, a pussy or a homophobic term, and douchebag and pussy are male directed insults as they are far more commonly directly at men than at women (so are most homophobic terms, but not all of them).
I am a big fan of the words motherfucker and cocksucker as well.
Perhaps someday women will take pride is displeasing men, as much as men take pride in displeasing women.
