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Thursday, October 25, 2007 12:00 AM

What's so funny about abusive girlfriends?

News about women's role in domestic violence inspires comedy, as well as cries in defense of men.

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  • Thursday, October 25, 2007 04:03 PM

    The law still looks at that as assault, and if she swung first, you still have the option of defending yourself, regardless of your gender, and that of your attacker.

    Not in practice. If there is a mark on her the man will almost certainly be punished unless there are multiple witnesses telling a completely unambiguous story. At best neither will be punished. It is almost impossible for a woman to face legal jeopardy in a fight with a man, no matter what she does. The only exceptions are when it can be proven that he took NO action against her AT ALL. Once he takes action, regardless of the circumstances, her legal safety is in practice guaranteed in all but the most unusual and well documented(cameras) circumstances.

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