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I think it speaks well of you that you have difficulty imagining a man deliberately ejaculating inside a woman after agreeing not to. I can't really see it, either, but that's because the men I generally sleep with are good guys. I work at a place with people who haven't known many good guys at all, and shit like that happens all the time. Maybe the difficulty you have admitting that drastically changing the contours of an agreed sexual experience should count as rape speaks to some truth in the hyperbole AKA Smith used a while back. And come where you didn't expect come is drastic--and harmful. I would choose a lot of hardships over an unwanted pregnancy.
