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Sexuality is a part of humans from birth. I think most of us find abhorent the conscious thought of sexualizing our children, or of allowing (or encouraging) them to become the target of the sexual interest of others.
Lucky Achiever said "Most of us find the conscious thought of sexuality in children abhorent. Most of us would never do this to our children."
If that is a true reflection of 'us' than most of 'us' have never had children, or didn't notice, as they touched themselves, or let running water touch them, etc.