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Step 1: Rid vocabulary of the word "but." Step 2: Always agree with your husband.
  • If it's not painful for both sides it's not a real compromise

    It's the choosing of an option from a range of options which the pain free partner has unilaterally decided beforehand was acceptable. Volume of noise is a very imprecise indicator of actual pain.