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I have zero sex drive. I'd rather have root canal without novocaine than have sex. I'm fine with that - it frees up lots of time to focus on important things.
This nonexistant libido is affecting my relationship though, so I'd take it for the sake of my partner. A good relationship has to be based on more than just sex; however, they tell me that sex is an important component, so if I have to do it, I may as well be able to muster up a little enthusiasm for it.