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Monday, April 16, 2007 12:00 AM

"Bitches-and-hos" lesbian subculture

Have some young lesbians taken a cue from mainstream rap on how to treat women?

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Friday, April 27, 2007 10:44 AM

You can read?

I read through some of your letters and you appear to have such anger toward women.

No, I just want women to stop being selfisah pigs and to begin acknowledging thsat they are at least half responsible for both the good and the bad things in America. If I seem angry, it is because women are such pigs in they continue to refuse to acknowledge this, which leads to frustration on my part. I am not the typical pushover boys you deal with, the ones who do as you say or else they won't get any from you, so get over it.

You have posted lots of accusations, anger, and generalizations about us.

and American women NEVER do this about men?

I hope you're just trolling because the energy put into hating ... it's not good for you and I mean that sincerely. I would say the same to a woman who posted venmous things about men too. You've only got so much time in life after all ...

And I have said I have given up on American women altogether, The gender politics is such that a man has to be an idiot to make ANY commitment to any woman since it comes back and bites him on the ass LEGALLY, the system is so stacked against men. Just say I wanted to do the one night stand thing instead, which I cannot comprehend and refuse to do, why would I want to be with a woman who has been with 200-500 other men? Also, most women seem to choose their men based on shallow considerations rather than on substantial character traits. I disrespect most women for this and refuse to allow myself to be used by women like this anymore, (you know the women guys, the ones who will incessantly complain about their douchebag bastard boyfriends to you while not leaving them for someone better-- like you for instance-- (as if I would want them anyway anymore)). Basically, I have chosen to be celibate since I am not super rich nor super hot looking and thus cannot snag decent TRUSTWORTHY women.

Wednesday, April 18, 2007 02:39 PM

A Late Comment On The John Lennon Thing...

Lennon repeatedly beat both of his wives at various points in his life. I'm not really sure how he maintains any sort of credibility as the Boomer's saint in light of this fact.

And I'm a person who'd generally rather hear the Beatles than Tupac, but come on...the hazy utopia of Imagine (Which, honestly, if you detach the sentimentality is a fairly dull and monotonous song) is a far cry from the old SOB that Lennon actually was.

A musical genius, sure...but a world class dick.

Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:35 AM

Who are these "women", Brightstar, et al?

You keep saying "Women do this" and "Women do that"...well? Who are these women?

I've been around the block a few times, in my 47 years, and with one exception, every guy I've ever dated/loved/lived with/married has been a nice guy. The one who wasn't didn't last long. Same with most of the women I know. Really nice guys, for the most part. Sure, some were occasionally whiny and needy, but so was I, so I call it even.

You may have had some bad experiences, but please -- don't extrapolate to the rest of us. Plenty of women are very happy to find nice guys, and even to breed with them, your armchair evolutionary psychologizing notwithstanding.

In response to the, "Well, if a woman said this, no one would complain!" complainers -- try substituting Black, Muslim, or disabled in your statements. "All disabled people are _____." "All Blacks do _____." "All Muslims are just naturally ______." No group is monolithic, and few groups have many universal characteristics. The moment you say "Women do _____," you are automatically wrong, because -- not all women do.

Wednesday, April 18, 2007 09:15 AM

It's all very clear now...

Don Imus was actually using NY Lesbion lingo to describe womens championship in terms of Spike Lee's movie "School Daze." This was merely a case of miscommunication between mutually exclusive cross sub-cultural discourse.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007 09:46 PM

the use of apparently over the top language and emotion doesn't mean there isn't a valid point being made

If women were able to be disqualified from complaining because men thought they weren't coming to the discussion with the proper state of emotional balance and health we wouldn't have to worry about any of these arguments would we.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007 09:26 PM

BrightStar

I read through some of your letters and you appear to have such anger toward women. You have posted lots of accusations, anger, and generalizations about us. I hope you're just trolling because the energy put into hating ... it's not good for you and I mean that sincerely. I would say the same to a woman who posted venmous things about men too. You've only got so much time in life after all ...

Tuesday, April 17, 2007 03:02 PM

Speaking of my previous post

I will restate that the source of the world's problems hinges on who decides to breed the next generation or humans and what choices are made.

Since, unless a woman is raped and raises the baby, women invariably choose their mate whom they will bless with a kid, it invariably falls upon women as to who is generating the next generation of human beings.

WHICH IS WHY THE WORLD IS AS SCREWED UP AS IT IS.

You cannot hide behind the so called 'patriarchy' excuse anymore, women. You have been outed. You choose your mates based on your sexual preferences, which are to find the biggest troublemakers on the planet and bless them with offspring.

Tuesday, April 17, 2007 02:58 PM

The Way of the Bastard RULES no matter what women say

Second, the nice guys aren't always so nice. Sometimes they're just needy and whiny and angry and passive-aggressive. I think eventually, the nice guys mostly just figure out how to be genuinely nice, and things pick up for them in terms of women. But especially when they're young, the "nice guys" I knew mostly had their own issues, stemming from childhoods and adolescents of getting picked on a great deal.

Nice guys are not so nice? WTF?!? And assholes ARE nice? So a woman would rather date a screwed up asshole as opposed to a screwed up nice guy? I couldn't make this twisted stuff up if I tried.

Point being, you women keep making those ludicrous excuses as to why so called nice guys are poison while dancing around the truth that women cling to evil men like gorilla glue to wood.

It is genetic, it is in your bones to find and cuddle to the worst bastards, because in the wild, the bastards survive.

So quit the crap about nice guys not being so nice.

That having been said, AGAIN, I could be Ktwdawg and his "Way of the Bastard" revelations- reading his post is basically my life too.

So why again do women prefer bastards over good men then LIE to themselves and to men about it?!?

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