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...trying to figure out why it's important to list whether one had an abortion. Is it a form of outing? So that readers can say, "Well, if so-and-so had one, I guess it's OK." or "If so-and-so had one, well, geez, I wouldn't want her punished"?
While I can see (but do not agree with) the logic of that mindset, I don't see any other upside.
I respect a woman's right to a safe and legal abortion but just don't get this tactic.