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Wednesday, July 19, 2006 12:00 AM

"Blitz massage," revisited

The L.A. Times says Merkel "smiled." Riiiiight.

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Wednesday, July 19, 2006 08:47 AM

Looks like a grimace to me

W needs a beating with a clue stick. Is he drinking again or is he really this obnoxious when he's sober?

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 09:44 AM

THAT'S a smile?

I saw it several times. It looks like a grimace, followed by a look of extreme pissed-offness. Seriously, I think the only thing protecting him from an elbow to the balls is his title. That's certainly the only thing that would've stopped me. Maybe.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 10:03 AM

If I did that to one of my fellow employees...

...I'd be standing on the carpet in front of the Man. This sort of behavior is strongly discouraged even at Wal*Mart.

The really ironic thing is, this is exactly what the right wing bozos were saying about the VRWC-manufactured Clinton scandal du jour back in the day.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 10:10 AM

think about how scary it that would be if you were a world leader

and some idiot came up behind you like that. She looked jarred to say the least and then kind of exasperated like, "oh, it's him, but of course...it's only Georgie. OK, whew...

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 11:06 AM

...and her eyes said "yes"

Do you get the feeling that W, and the writers of the LA times piece, are not used to the subtle rejection cues used by most people?

Come to think of it, that shrug was not so subtle.

Can't we send someone else to big important world conferences?

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 01:06 PM

what if she was a man?

my bad, i thought men and women were equal. i mean, if it was jacques would anyone care? suddenly she's a helpless woman victimized by bush's evil massage? *that's* degrading. i thought she was a world leader.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 01:19 PM

If she was a man it's still crushingly, blazingly inappropriate

ugh.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 01:55 PM

If she was a man...

If she were a man, it wouldn't have happened because that's too "gay." The only "acceptable" physical contact between two men is a handshake (or an ass grab in a sports context, which for some reason isn't "gay").

The point that "no would would be upset if she was a man" is patently false. Bush's behavior suggests dominance and humiliation. If he were so rude as to do that to another man (especially a world leader) people (especially the touchee and his subjects) would go apeshit. The real truth inherent in this episide is that for most people "she's a woman, so it doesn't matter."

Finally, thank you Salon for making sure that comment posters have to watch an ad before posting, and for not warning us that anything we type prior to watching said ad is automatically and irretrievably erased. Good show.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 02:19 PM

Disrespectful

This was disrespectful and overly familiar behavior in the most formal of situations. It's very telling. Bush tries very hard to be folksy, but does he commonly try to administer back rubs and the like to male heads of state?

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 02:25 PM

"I OWN YOU"

or "I am very comfortable with you".

That is what I perceived Bush's assinine gesture to imply.

Either way, it is inappropriate.

But then again, I know lots of women who, without asking, will do the same thing to a guy. Are the women asses too?

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 02:51 PM

Brighty, "I Own You" is very astute

Dogs are also dominant in the shoulder area. As to the last line of your post, no women never do this and they are never asses.

At least you got a compliment from a real flesh and blood feminist today.

Smile, just once for me.

Wednesday, July 19, 2006 09:10 PM

Some men do this to other men

My graduate school advisor did the same thing constantly...to men and women both. In his case I think he was just clueless (he hated dealing with conflict and was worried about sexual harassment issues), although it's hard to imagine a man made it to his 40's without realizing that he was making people very uncomfortable. In my case, I endured it or ducked it for a couple of years before just asking him to stop, and he never did it again.

King George on the other hand seems to be completely aware of the signal he's sending.

I can't think of any woman who does this to a relatively strange man. It would come off as a sexual advance and dealing with mixed signals about sexual interest is really really awkward.

Thursday, July 20, 2006 04:54 AM

Um, Brightstar

Are these women you're talking about heads of state? And are they doing this in a public forum, to another world leader? Cause if so, yeah, they're asses too.

Thursday, July 20, 2006 06:34 AM

Smiled?!?

"Grimaced" is the best word I can come up with to describe Merkel's expression--certainly not a good-touch smile. She should put the handsy SOB on notice.

Thursday, July 20, 2006 10:46 AM

Simply put...

...just more proof how freakin' clueless this man is.

Thursday, July 20, 2006 12:03 PM

Tha silver spoon sure didn't come with manners

What an idiot. She should have punched him square in the jaw.

Clinton had more class, more manners, more lots of things than this dumbass. He knew how to put on a show. Bush doesn't even try. Is it 2008 yet?

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