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Rob,
Your short email is just a couple sentences longer than "enough said." Your cunnilingus technique must be worse than your spelling if the clitoris is all you take note of. Do it right and you'll need a towel.
As for the other end of the spectrum, blow jobs needn't involve ingestion to be fantastic. And equating them with submission as if the stupid porn star habit of spraying all over a woman's face is the norm only would betray a gross ignorance of most people's reality.