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I've always wondered why so many men are so threatened by feminists. Now I totally get it! Yikes. There really are women out there who don't want men to enjoy life. Wouldn't it be more "feminist" to demand the right to reciprocation?
There is nothing - nothing - humiliating about oral sex. I can't even debunk the notion since there's no "there" there to debunk.
The gag reflex is a reflex, a biological response.
If you feel a particular need to be progressive about it, then just make sure women get equal opportunity to receive oral sex. That would probably be a better source of research and controversy.
Most women I've dated have had less of a sex drive than I do; one was vice-versa. Oral sex is a convenient way to cover the gap. And frankly, you can virtually always get more in other favors from the receiver than the time it takes.
