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"But if you're in a relationship in which it's enough of a problem that one person is offended, threatened or made unhappy by her partner's viewing, ... maybe you should stick to the porn and get out of the relationship."
Porn is inifinitely better than being stuck with a uptight, humorless, frigid, blueblood who is incapable of getting any joy out of life, and determined to suck all of it out of yours. Get out while you can!