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Monday, February 27, 2006 12:00 AM

Pornographic persuasion

How to make your girlfriend OK with your porn habit.

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  • Tuesday, February 28, 2006 09:51 AM

    DD

    I suspect your husband is coming to realize that he is gay. Or at the very least bi-sexual. I say this because a porn collection is very telling about what a person likes sexually. I have always looked at my guys porn to find out what they like. One guy had all this bondage porn, so I got the fuck out of there fast as bondage is not my thing. I have a husband, and his porn pretty much matches what we do, minus the multiple partners. I have many straight male friends with porn collections. Not one of them has any male gay porn, lesbian porn, sure, but many of them stick with all female porn or 2 or more women to one guy porn. Also since your husband seems to be having gay fantasies, as a very straight woman all I can say is that the idea of licking a woman's twat has never appealed to me, no matter how many times I see it in porn and I've asked my husband if seeing these guys has ever made him wonder what it'd be like to be with a man, his response was practically outrage. Straight men, do not have fantasies of sticking another man's penis in their mouth or their ass or vice versa.

    Any straight men here have fantasies of being with other guys, but you are fully sure you're straight? Any gay guys out there thinking they were straight until they got a hold of some gay male porn?

    So talk to your husband, tell him your concerns, and even ask if he'd be willing to get rid of the gay porn and just return to the straight porn. If he refuses, then I think you have your answer.

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