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Friday, January 13, 2006 12:00 AM

Do the kids get mom's name, or dad's? How about alternating

One writer explains how she and her husband chose their daughters' last names.

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  • Friday, January 13, 2006 01:20 PM

    The Latin Americans

    My daughter was born in Latin America, and her birth certificate lists her two last names, his and mine. Admittedly, in many LA countries the mother's last name has a sort of for official purposes only status, and only the father's last name gets passed on, but at least the system recognizes the importance of a person's background. You can know a lot about a person if you know their mother's family name. My ID from abroad states my mother's maiden name. This is actually a very good system for identifying people.

    If my daughter changes her last name, I would be as devastated as if she had changed her first name.

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