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Dalma Heyn's new book explains why "drama kings" are afraid of smart women.
  • To "a man"

    You wrote:

    "Just stop for one second and consider what it feels like to be informed that, no, you're not important, no, you're not essential, no, you don't make enough of a difference to be necessary. You're a nice option, like a CD player in a car, but as soon as you can't or don't deliver the goods, you're gone. God help you if you have a problem, or get sick, or need some help,or are blocked for some other reason. Commitment? Principles? Values? Nah. You don't build a life together, you sort of acquire an accessory with a penis."

    Now if you just substitute "big breasts" for the last word of your paragraph, you will have described the situation women have always faced. Just ask any first wife who has been dumped in favor of the younger model.