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Monday, November 7, 2005 12:00 AM

How to snag a man this holiday season

Gossip columnist Cindy Adams gets some helpful hints from a matchmaker.

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  • Tuesday, November 8, 2005 07:16 AM

    misconception

    "There is a reason women find it harder and harder to get married these days..."

    It's only women like you who are struggling to get married, though. Women who don't feel the need to "package" themselves, don't need to be married to prove their womanliness.

    I don't mind the women who sit around debating the merits of various lipgloss brands and competing for the most expensive engagement rings they can harangue a man into buying. But when *those* women start trying to make all *other* women feel like losers, they become as annoying as the Jesus freaks who pass out religious pamphlets at the office.

    Tatyana, if you have it all figured out, why don't you just live off your fabulous husband and be happy? You should be glad that "the feminists" are too clueless to take him from you.

    Or are you blaming us for the fact that all your "packaging" hasn't worked yet?

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