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Monday, November 2, 2009 01:31 PM

Polanski did this

The above letter is correct. Sadly, the victim is asking for the wrong people to end this. it's not about the underlying conviction anymore, it's about a bail jumper who refused to serve his sentence. It must seem like that to her, obviously. She wants it all to stop. One person can make it stop, could have made it stop all along. Courts can't decide to let rich fugitive convicted rapists who have failed to appear for sentencing off the hook if they have made life sufficiently hellish for their victims. I want Polanski to be honorable for once and end this, so maybe this poor woman will stop asking the authorities for what only he can give.

Monday, November 2, 2009 01:13 PM

Litmus Test

I had unkind thoughts about parents of screaming kids until I became a mother. Now I know. My daughter is 10, but I remember how hard it was. The last thing parents of a screaming toddler need is a hard time. Either act supportive or ignore them and remember that however hard it is to spend a little while hearing the kid scream, it's a thousand times harder for them.

Any adult person who is unkind to some poor mom struggling to placate a two year old flunks the litmus test for decent personhood.

Friday, August 7, 2009 08:07 AM

John Hughes Celebrating Teenage Feminity

Let's not forget the barely conscious drunk girlfriend the Jake Ryan character send off to be raped by the Geek in Sixteen Candles. I believe he says "be my guest".

Monday, June 29, 2009 01:04 PM

pregnancy is not motherhood

Are waldman and Saletan fathers? Someone ask which of their kids they would have been willingcto sell for $1000?

Motherhood is a huge deal. Women have abortions because they know what a big deal it is. It's illogical that the same women would become mothers and give their babies away. These two men need to learn what motherhood is.

Monday, June 29, 2009 01:04 PM

pregnancy is not motherhood

Are waldman and Saletan fathers? Someone ask which of their kids they would have been willingcto sell for $1000?

Motherhood is a huge deal. Women have abortions because they know what a big deal it is. It's illogical that the same women would become mothers and give their babies away. These two men need to learn what motherhood is.

Monday, June 29, 2009 01:04 PM

pregnancy is not motherhood

Are waldman and Saletan fathers? Someone ask which of their kids they would have been willingcto sell for $1000?

Motherhood is a huge deal. Women have abortions because they know what a big deal it is. It's illogical that the same women would become mothers and give their babies away. These two men need to learn what motherhood is.

Monday, June 29, 2009 01:04 PM

pregnancy is not motherhood

Are waldman and Saletan fathers? Someone ask which of their kids they would have been willingcto sell for $1000?

Motherhood is a huge deal. Women have abortions because they know what a big deal it is. It's illogical that the same women would become mothers and give their babies away. These two men need to learn what motherhood is.

Monday, June 29, 2009 01:04 PM

pregnancy is not motherhood

Are waldman and Saletan fathers? Someone ask which of their kids they would have been willingcto sell for $1000?

Motherhood is a huge deal. Women have abortions because they know what a big deal it is. It's illogical that the same women would become mothers and give their babies away. These two men need to learn what motherhood is.

Monday, June 29, 2009 01:04 PM

pregnancy is not motherhood

Are waldman and Saletan fathers? Someone ask which of their kids they would have been willingcto sell for $1000?

Motherhood is a huge deal. Women have abortions because they know what a big deal it is. It's illogical that the same women would become mothers and give their babies away. These two men need to learn what motherhood is.

Saturday, May 9, 2009 05:12 PM
Original article: Finale wrap-up: "Dollhouse"

Love the Show, Love Dushku, Love Whedon

I LOVE Dollhouse. I love one of the themes: the indomitable spirit of a fearless leader showing itself over and over again, despite everything her handlers do to supress her. I also love how the show takes on the lack of ethics that client of prostitutes have. And I believe that the hostility toward Dushko parallels the garden variety misogyny the show examines: a beautiful, young women is not to be taken seriously. Echo is my hero.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009 05:08 AM
Original article: Write a poem. Get the girl

Seriously?

We're reviving the old cliche that men invented civilization to impress women? While the women cleaned the latrines, I suppose.

Friday, April 10, 2009 07:48 AM

It Happens to Men Too

A man in my college boyfriend's fraternity is serving a prison sentence for raping 7 of his frat brothers while they were too intoxicated to stop him. One brave victim came forward, and the rest followed. The only thing those young men did wrong was trust someone who turned out to be cruel and abusive. I have been told by self defense students that these male on male rapes are far more common than people believe.

Most men are kind and decent and accept the onus of making totally sure that a woman or a man who trusts them is a willing participant. Anything else is unmanly.

Monday, March 9, 2009 10:07 AM

Unintended Consequences of Carseats

Carseats save lives, but they also make it easy to forget about a sleeping baby in the back seat. Additionally, toddlers who could probably open a door and escape are trapped by the seatbelts. I feel nothing but pity for these poor parents and the poor, poor children.

I always peek into cars to see if there are babies or dogs unattended on hot or very cold days. So far I've spotted a few dogs, and the stores already had a protocol for dealing with it. I know that at least two cases I have heard of involved parents who didn't realize how fast a child can overheat in a car, and left them deliberately, so education can help in those cases. Another safeguard: the other parent can call and check that the dropoff went smoothly.

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