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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 12:30 PM

Actually

I love to go down on her.

Has Bullshit65 said whether HE goes down yet? I think he's been asked several times...

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 11:54 AM

bla bla bla

But either way, BS needs to break up with this girl; who ever she is, she deserves better. And she desperately needs therapy if she's dating that misogynist loser.

As long as BS continues to defy us women and maintains an independent mind stream that we do not agree with, he should shrivel up and die a lonely death. Independent thought is reserved only for us women. We women alone can continue to trash the other sex with impunity while you weak men need to obey us and only do what we ask of you. Nyah!

Oh, and we are good to you men too. TOO GOOD.

(people WONDER why I have an issue with feminism~!?!)

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 11:21 AM
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Now I understand

Why she is despicable and why I felt I should NEVER in a million years vote for her.

HRC comes from a culture where excuses become the reality.

Never mind HER shortcomings, it is always something ELSE outside of this.

So be it. I am ALREADY sick to death of the excuse making.

And EVERY ADDITIONAL article written bitching that everyone hates women in power is only digging a deeper trench for feminism. Never mind Golda Meir, Thatcher, Merkel and the dozens of OTHER powerful females who do not make SNIVELLY excuses to excuse why nobody likes their policies.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 09:38 AM

Broadsheet is REALLY valuable

It repeatedly demonstrates quite CLEARLY just how irrelevant our needs are to women, how much they despise us, and how WE constantly should be ready to owe women more and more while ignoring our own needs.

It IS a one way street. Women have needs and demands, men meet those demands, either voluntarily or not. GOD FORBID women should feel some sense of reciprocity towards men, IN THIS SO CALLED FEMINIST AGE OF SUPPOSED 'EQUALITY'.

Remember when women said we were the neandertahsl whose attitudes needed to change towards women? We men changed. Women still hold our feet to the same old fire, THEIR NEANDERTHAL FIRE, the one that says a man who likes sex is bad or evil, that men should not have their needs met, that men should SUFFER for their sexual desires. This needs to be visited and REvisited.

I think Broadsheet is one element, of hundreds on the web, from where the new male awareness of our plight will emerge and metastasise.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 08:51 AM

I continue to wonder

If the oxytocin released during preg and breastfeeding is killing the women's libido.

In this case, dostinex is known to eliminate oxytocin from the bloodstream and return the libido to a more zesty states.

At least I know this from my personal experience with this pharma.

Have any studies been done to use dostinex to reduce oxytocin in women to increase libido?

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 08:27 AM

Of course!

That NYM story was pathetic. If people don't want to deal with the work of monogamy, then don't get f'n married.

BINGO! A woman has given us men the ANSWER!!

Don't get married, instead get yourself knocked up so you can get the child you want.

OH WAIT. Men CANNOT get fucking knocked up.

So women have dropped the anvil onto us. Either PUT UP with women's shit and reproduce, or else suffer alone and die off.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 08:25 AM

Thorny? But WHY?

Very thorny issue.

Because men are good to women and seek to make right.

Women do not do the same in return, seemingly, in any aggregate sense. Indeed the ideal seems to be to slough off all responsibility onto the poor man and to TRAP him in yet another way, yet AGAIN.

When I say women DESPISE us men, this is a stellar example of the cruel dynamic at work.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 08:12 AM

Meaning WHAT?

they are just family guys and gals who have normal expectations of life.

Meaning, sexless marriage should CONTINUE to be considered the NORM?

That does not sound like something that supports men's needs. Society needs to change, because a lot of guys are frustrated chumps. Maybe we men can begin to open this door the men are trapped behind.

Certainly, women seem to never hesitate to chase their bliss. Men should too.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 08:07 AM

I'm just glad men are opening up

and starting to talk about this.

Because you can see the dynamic going on otherwise. The men are trapped and HAVE to remain silent within their marriage.

Then they become emboldened to finally follow their instinct and find some sexual satisfaction.

The women then, not knowing the dynamic, demonize men instead of asking what can be done to improve the situation.

Then again, maybe I am DREAMING, because it seems women nearly ALWAYS take the easier road of demonizing men instead of improving the situation even when they KNOW the truth about the dynamic that is really going on.

So maybe it truly IS hopeless and the men are CORRCT in how they go about this.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 07:55 AM

Yeah, THAT WORKS!

That said, it is just as much my husbands responsibility to let me know when he needs more from me than I'm giving, before looking for it elsewhere. There is a laziness on both parts when I marriage is threatened due to lack of sex or borebum.

Yeah, he is going to tell YOU what he needs from you, just so YOU can be primed to look for his cheating when he finally DOES decide to cheat instead of waiting for you to blow him finally.

I am engaged to a woman, and already I am wondering what a pathetic life I will have because she refuses to give me a BJ.

On the other hand, because I do not have kids with her yet, I can STILL GET OUT of this situation if and when I get my gumption up.

God help the poor guys with a wife and KIDS who cannot say a word to HER that they are dissatisfied, yet feel trapped that they are completely ignored sexually.

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